Sun & Sea Motel, in Noraville.

Outstay Program

THE GOAL OF THE OUTSTAY PROGRAM IS TO REACCLIMATIZE MYSELF TO THE WORLD AFTER MY LONG PERIOD OF SECLUSION. It is designed to serve as a bridge between life with my parents at Lake Haven, and the adventures which await when I remove out of "home". One could liken it to taking baby steps into the void... tentative at first, then bolder and more certain, once I gain rhythm, and poise.

Inertia has long been recognized as a problem. The Outstay Program is a remedy to this problem. Who knows, perhaps I may be able to make a triumphant return to Sydney, before beginning the long trek north?

The three stages of the Outstay Program can overlap with each other. In fact, once started, Stage One will never really end... I will always be expanding my range. However, once I have stayed 7 nights at one place, my next target will be 2 weeks, 3 weeks, 4 weeks and so on (this will mark the beginning of the Escape from Oz!)

STAGE ONE: THE RECON

FINDING THE edge of my Comfort Zone, and the rate of the my Comfort Zone's expansion.
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AUXILIARY GOALS: Booking a room online; probing wifi reception; getting used to the Vagabondic lifestyle!
Additional issues: Loneliness: On my first few nights away (such as at Gorokan on June 10, 2015) I felt quite strong homesickness, even though "home" was literally just up the road.
Phase Two will commence in April 2016, when I hope to stay a night at the Dam Hotel in Wadalba.

STAGE TWO: The Longstay

WHILE STAGE One will involve me probing how far I can stay from home, Stage Two is all about how long I can stay away. I need to answer the question: does anxiety rise the longer I away from "home", or does it decrease as I start to accept the hotel as my new home?

In March 2016, I returned to the Bridge View Motel at Gorokan, and this time stayed for two nights. Later that year? I stayed three nights at the Beachcomber Resort in Toukley.

STAGE THREE: The Teachstay

IN THE Third component of the Outstay Program, I introduce work into the equation. After all, I will need to work as I wander, and Stage Three is focused on recording how I feel teaching so far from home, as well as the practical aspects of working in a hotel room, or AirBNBer. Will the wifi be up to the task, or will I need to use my phone as a tether? That is one question out of many. How much will it cost to support myself? Hotel rooms are not designed to be offices, and sometimes the atmosphere can be oppressive. Dust can irritate my nostrils, or give me a sore throat.


Outstay Schedule


How long before the Escape (in years!)?

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Manifesting the Escape

Muladhara: The Will to Manifest
Gorokan
(One Night) | stage one
June 10 2015

Comfy bed at the Bridgeview Motel, near Toukley Bridge.

Svadhisthana: Vision
Toukley
(One Night) | stage one
August 12 2015

Manipura: Solar Plexus
Noraville
(One Night) | stage one
October 21 2015

Gorokan
(Two Nights) | stage two
March 9-10 2016

Watanobbi
(One Night) | stage one

October 12 2016

Toukley
(One Night with One iTalki Lesson) | stage three
February 15 2017

Hibiscus Lakeview Motel, in Budgewoi!

Anahata: Heart
Wyong (One Night) | stage one
November 29 2017

Wyong
(Four Nights) | stage two
February 5-9 2018

Budgewoi
(Two Nights with Five iTalki Lessons) | stage three
May 2-4 2018

Vishudda: Throat
The Entrance
(One Night) | stage one
August 22 2018

Killarney Vale
(One Night) | stage one
October 27 2018

The Entrance
(Five Nights) | stage two
February 18-23 2019

The Entrance
(Three Nights with 9 iTalki Lessons) | stage three
August 27-30 2019

Sahasrara: Crown
Robin's Nest
(One Night) | stage one
September 10 2020

Robin's Nest
Six Nights) | stage two
September 11-17 2020

Robin's Nest
(Four Nights with 15 iTalki Lessons) | stage three
September 18-21 2020

Ajna: Third Eye
Gosford
(One Night) | stage one
March 17 2021

Hanging out at Hotel Gosford, as the rain bomb approached.

Gosford
(Seven Nights) | stage two
May 17-24 2021


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People complain these days that the world is becoming uniform, that there are McDonalds and Starbucks on every corner, the world is becoming smaller and less interesting. This may be true on the surface level, since the globalists have only ever been interested in surface details. Scratch a little DEEPER, however, wherever you are, and you find a hidden world still exists, an aboriginal world, everywhere.

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